Welcome to counselling services offered by Paul Edwards. I have had decades of experience analyzing conflict. Unlike other people, I am happy to call out assholes to their face. My approach to any conflict is to identify the asshole and call them out (or attack them - depending on the circumstances). Sometimes there are two assholes. And indeed, in some situations, neither party is an asshole, there is simply a misunderstanding. But normally there is at least one asshole.
So if you're in conflict with your partner/siblings/children/parents and the problem seems to be intractible - contact me. If you really are faultless - as you no doubt claim to be - I will confirm that. And the other party will refuse to speak with me, because they know they are guilty as hell. Or - there could be a very different outcome, and your self-image will be shattered. Your risk to take.
Currently charging AUD$50/hour. That's a bit over USD$31 at time of writing. I accept customers worldwide, via email, phone or video chat, so don't let the other party in the dispute use that as an excuse for not having their actions independently scrutinized and judged. They know they're as guilty as sin, right? Or do they?
Note that all judgements of behavior are based on the Golden Rule from Aristotle/Confucius and others (ie thousands of years ago). If either party doesn't accept that as the basis of morality, don't bother contacting me - you should have asked about that before you married the bitch/bastard.
P.S. The pilot of MH370 was an asshole too - although I'm willing to change that position in light of new evidence from any black boxes that are found.
P.P.S. If you're a computer programmer, also check out PDOS